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When it comes to courting and dating, popular longstanding advice suggests that until the fish is on the hook, it is beneficial to adhere to certain "rules." These rules seem to offer a recipe for finding commitment and true romantic partnership, but what they invariably deliver is lopsided loving.In my experience treating couples and individuals, many hope that if they "play the game" correctly, their prince or princess will be the prize.

Here are 6 rules to Have boundaries while being real.

It is important to have boundaries and to not reveal more or do more than you are completely comfortable with.

With that in mind, opening up and getting to know someone does take a certain amount of patience.

Assess each new partner as an individual, and stay keenly connected with how you experience yourself while in his or her presence.

You need someone with whom you can reveal your authentic self, not just a piece of you—and you are the only one who can bring that full you to the table.

I am so glad someone is finally blowing all the horseshit out there in the dating world out of the water.Keep writing and get this stuff in the main stream where people can learn to stop shooting their selves in the foot.I'm glad to see that someone has some common sense! My thoughts on #1 is, you can wait all you want, if she's promiscuous, I'll figure it out before her phony waiting period is over.Women just need to be upfront, what men hate more than anything is to be deceived.#2 Playing Hard to get --- I don't have time for that, besides its just a deceptive as the #1 good-girl act.I share this here with the hope that it may help folks find comfort when dating and entering into a new relationship...Just prior to celebrating one of the BIG birthdays I did some soul searching and admitted that I had been approaching dating from the wrong perspective.I had always tried to entice and seduce men, using my physical appearance and feminine wiles (which I believed to be all that I had to offer a man), until I recognized the hazardous pattern of deception I was weaving.Needless to say, my past relationships were never quite right.So I had the big birthday and coincidentally went out on a first date 10 days later and instead of heart palpitations and a low cut top, I decided to be comfortable inside and out!I went deep inside of myself to where I truly reside and stayed there, peaceful and still.

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